In a series of letters to advice columnist Dear Abby, individuals from various parts of the United States seek guidance on personal and relationship issues. The first letter comes from a woman in Georgia who expresses her distress after her husband suggests that they unfriend each other on Facebook. She feels insecure and suspicious about his reasons for wanting to sever their online connection. Dear Abby advises her to discuss the issue further with her husband and consider counseling if their conversation is not productive. If he refuses counseling, she suggests consulting an attorney to protect her interests.
The second letter is from a man in Pennsylvania who shares his struggles with a blood disorder, extreme neuropathy, depression, and a failing marriage. He seeks help in reconnecting with his 13-year-old son, who he adopted and holds a special place in his heart. Dear Abby advises him to seek assistance from a mental health professional and a divorce lawyer who can enforce his parental rights and help him become more assertive.
The third letter is from someone in Oregon who is outraged by an adult family of three that consistently attends their church's potluck without bringing any food, refuses to help clean up, and takes leftovers home. The writer asks for advice on how to handle this situation. Dear Abby suggests that someone, preferably a religious leader, privately explain the “rules” to the family and emphasize the importance of contributing or assisting with cleaning up.
The fourth letter is from a woman in the Carolinas whose husband left her for her sister. She feels brokenhearted, has lost trust in others, and struggles with her mental health. Dear Abby encourages her to allow her friends to comfort and support her during this difficult time, as their outreach comes from a place of care. She also advises seeking guidance from a religious adviser and considering therapy to help heal from the heartbreak.
The fifth letter comes from a woman who is engaged to be married but lives in a different city from her fiance. She wonders how to meet her partner's needs when they are physically separated and expresses discomfort with engaging in video chat intimacy. Dear Abby suggests discussing this topic with her fiance and giving it a try to potentially enhance their relationship and improve communication.
The sixth letter is from a 60-year-old woman who is still a virgin and wonders if it is normal to have little interest in dating. She also contemplates using her saved money to buy a Bath and Body Works holiday package. Dear Abby reassures her that not everyone has a strong sex drive and that her experience is normal for her. She encourages the woman to indulge in the holiday package as a way to treat herself and fulfill a desire on her bucket list.
The seventh letter comes from a woman in Michigan who is dating someone with significant debt and poor financial management skills. She is unsure about her feelings for him and fears the financial burden that may come with the relationship. Dear Abby advises her to consult with an attorney before taking any further steps, ensuring that her finances and assets are protected. She also emphasizes the importance of having open discussions about money and suggests a prenuptial agreement if marriage is on the horizon.
The final letter is from a woman in the Midwest who recalls a painful incident at her son's wedding eleven years ago. She was dealing with her husband's illness and had stepped out during the reception. In her absence, her mother-in-law danced with her son instead of rescheduling the dance for when she returned. The woman still harbors resentment and questions her husband's decision. Dear Abby advises her to let go of the past and accept that what happened cannot be changed.
Overall, these letters address a range of personal, relational, and emotional issues faced by individuals seeking guidance and support in their respective situations. Dear Abby's responses provide insight and suggestions for navigating these challenges.
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