In a recent letter to advice columnist Dear Abby, a concerned mother from Texas seeks guidance on how to help her financially struggling daughter without sacrificing her own financial stability. The 57-year-old daughter recently lost her job due to a group layoff and has been unable to find new employment in her field. The mother had provided her daughter with a loan, but she acknowledges that it will not be a long-term solution. She also mentions that her daughter had previously blown a $300,000 inheritance, which could have served as a financial cushion. The mother expresses guilt about enjoying her own comfortable life while her daughter faces potential homelessness.

Dear Abby advises the mother that her daughter is ultimately responsible for her own choices and must face the consequences of her actions. Abby suggests that the daughter may need to find a job that pays less than her previous position, as many people have to do. If the daughter needs to move in with her mother, Abby advises setting limits on the number of dogs she can bring and making her responsible for finding safe homes for the rest.

In another letter, a woman from Oregon seeks advice on how to handle her complex relationship with her ex-husband. The woman describes her ex as a good man but admits that she is no longer physically or emotionally attracted to him. Despite undergoing couples counseling and her ex's efforts to change, she still has no desire to be with him. However, she feels guilty about his emotional pain and the desire of their young children and families for them to reunite. She seeks wisdom on how to navigate this situation.

Dear Abby advises the woman that her ex-husband's efforts to change may not be enough to reignite her feelings for him. Abby suggests seeking sessions with a licensed psychotherapist to help clarify her feelings before having an honest conversation with her ex. It is important for both individuals to be able to move on with their lives.

Next, a woman from South Dakota writes to Dear Abby, expressing her concerns about her husband's behavior. She believes that he craves attention from other women and worries that he may cheat on her. The woman explains that her husband tries to strike up conversations and gain the attention of women whenever they are around, regardless of age or appearance. Although she has never found solid proof of infidelity, she cannot shake the feeling that he desires other women. She seeks guidance on how to handle the situation.

Dear Abby suggests that the woman communicate with her husband about her concerns. She proposes that his behavior may stem from a need for validation, particularly if he lacks self-esteem. Abby advises discussing the issue openly and, if necessary, seeking the help of a marriage and family therapist to improve communication.

In another letter, a woman from Texas describes the toxic dynamic with her boyfriend's controlling sister, who exhibits manipulative and abusive behavior. The sister-in-law frequently lashes out at the woman, attempts to gaslight her, and turns other family members against her. The woman's boyfriend often sides with his family, which has caused strain on their relationship. The woman decided to remove herself from the situation and move to another state. She wonders if there is any hope for a peaceful future.

Dear Abby assures the woman that a peaceful future is unlikely in this situation. She acknowledges that the family dynamic she described is extremely unhealthy and advises the woman to continue removing herself from the toxic environment if she desires a peaceful future.

Lastly, a heartbroken mother writes to Dear Abby about her son's upcoming wedding. Despite the couple referring to it as an elopement, they have informed others of the date and location. The mother accepts that it is their special day, but she is hurt to not be formally invited. She expresses her disappointment and questions the etiquette of holding a reception six months later.

Dear Abby explains that traditional wedding etiquette has become more relaxed in recent years. She advises the mother not to solely blame her future daughter-in-law and to discuss the situation with her son before assuming anything. Abby suggests that if the mother hasn't received a formal invitation, she could still show up with a smile and offer to be a witness. She notes that those who attend the wedding should be invited to the reception and should bring a gift.

In another letter, a couple from Florida seeks advice on how to handle friends with hearing loss. They explain that their friends with hearing loss often struggle to hear conversations in public places, causing them to speak louder or resort to written communication. The couple feels uncomfortable and increasingly declines invitations to spend time with their friends. They seek suggestions on how to handle the situation.

Dear Abby suggests that the couple privately talk with their friends about their hearing loss and suggest they get their hearing checked. Abby emphasizes the importance of seeking help from an audiologist when experiencing hearing loss to avoid increased isolation. She encourages open communication and understanding among friends to find a solution that benefits everyone involved.